Why Conflict?

Answer: Because we Live in a Fallen World

Conflict exists because we live in a fallen world. When Adam and Eve disobeyed God in the Garden of Eden, they fell from their original righteousness and communion with God. As a result of the fall, they faced spiritual and physical death. Their relationship with God was broken. The breaking of God’s law had consequences. The world was not as it should be. As a result of Adam’s sin, we live in a world that has conflict, death, selfishness, and hate.

Sometimes conflict comes because of the sin of others. People may wrong us although we have been acting righteously. Other times, we are reaping what we personally sowed (even if our contribution to the problem is only 1%). But all the time, conflict is an opportunity to glorify God in how we respond.

Our Hope: a God who Intervenes

Even after Adam and Eve disobeyed God, God himself promised that he would crush Satan and remove the curse (). Ever since the fall, God’s plan has been to remove the curse and restore what was broken. Because we have a God who intervenes, we have hope.

Jesus Christ is the fulfillment of the promise from . Two thousand years ago, in the fullness of time, He came to pay the penalty of sins, to restore our relationship to God the Father. Because he was a perfect sacrifice, being both God and man, he was able to pay the penalty of our sins, nailing our sins upon the cross (). Those who have Christ are no longer are we slaves to sin. No longer do we need to hide from God and hide our nakedness. We can be open about our sin, because he has clothed us with his righteousness.

When Jesus died, he exclaimed, “it is finished.” Our debt from sin has been paid in full. Christ has purchased us for himself (). Yet, until Christ returns, we do not see the full consummation of everything being subject to Christ. We wait in groaning until Christ returns to make all things right ().

And even as we wait, we pray that we would reflect the character of Christ. We pray for God’s kingdom to come. Conflict is used by God to purify us, to make us more like the image of Jesus Christ. God uses conflict to strengthen our perseverance, faith, hope, and love. He uses it in the process of sanctification, to make us more into the image and likeness of Jesus Christ. May God continue to purify our hearts and mold us into his image.


14 The Lord God said to the serpent,

“Because you have done this,
cursed are you above all livestock
and above all beasts of the field;
on your belly you shall go,
and dust you shall eat
all the days of your life.
15 I will put enmity between you and the woman,
and between your offspring and her offspring;
he shall bruise your head,
and you shall bruise his heel.” (ESV)


3:1 Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the Lord God had made.

He said to the woman, “Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?” And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.’” But the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.

And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. But the Lord God called to the man and said to him, “Where are you?” 10 And he said, “I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself.” 11 He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?” 12 The man said, “The woman whom you gave to be with me, she gave me fruit of the tree, and I ate.” 13 Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this that you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”

14 The Lord God said to the serpent,

“Because you have done this,
cursed are you above all livestock
and above all beasts of the field;
on your belly you shall go,
and dust you shall eat
all the days of your life.
15 I will put enmity between you and the woman,
and between your offspring and her offspring;
he shall bruise your head,
and you shall bruise his heel.”

16 To the woman he said,

“I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing;
in pain you shall bring forth children.
Your desire shall be for your husband,
and he shall rule over you.”

17 And to Adam he said,

“Because you have listened to the voice of your wife
and have eaten of the tree
of which I commanded you,
‘You shall not eat of it,’
cursed is the ground because of you;
in pain you shall eat of it all the days of your life;
18 thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you;
and you shall eat the plants of the field.
19 By the sweat of your face
you shall eat bread,
till you return to the ground,
for out of it you were taken;
for you are dust,
and to dust you shall return.”

20 The man called his wife’s name Eve, because she was the mother of all living. 21 And the Lord God made for Adam and for his wife garments of skins and clothed them.

22 Then the Lord God said, “Behold, the man has become like one of us in knowing good and evil. Now, lest he reach out his hand and take also of the tree of life and eat, and live forever—” 23 therefore the Lord God sent him out from the garden of Eden to work the ground from which he was taken. 24 He drove out the man, and at the east of the garden of Eden he placed the cherubim and a flaming sword that turned every way to guard the way to the tree of life. (ESV)


13 And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses, 14 by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross. (ESV)


13 waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, 14 who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works. (ESV)


18 For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. 19 For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the sons of God. 20 For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of him who subjected it, in hope 21 that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to corruption and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God. 22 For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now. 23 And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. 24 For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? 25 But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. (ESV)